<h1>How Can I Win Back The One I Love</h1>

So you desperately want to win back the one you love?  Have you been miserable and lonely without them?  Have you played countless scenarios of their return in your head?  Only one problem , none of these scenarios are likely to happen!

Your ex has made it clear they don't want to hear from you anymore.  So what can you do to win back the one you love?

Well first and foremost it's safe to say you are heading in the right direction, knowing that you need some help and advice is the first step.  So tell me this, up to this point what have you been doing to win them back?  If you're like almost every other person out there with a broken heart you have probably been sending desperate pleading texts, leaving needy miserable  voicemails, begging for a second chance.  But what you don't realise is, that its actually this behaviour that is pushing them further away.  The more desperate and needy you become the more the one you love will pull away.

So what you need to do to win back the one you love is back off, cut all contact for the time being and do your own thing.  Get on with your life and start trying to enjoy yourself.  If you are happier in yourself it will show, you will not need to pester your ex.

You may find it tough in the beginning, but once your ex thinks you have moved on they will start to rethink things.  What's more if they hear from your friends that you're out having a good time, or better still see you moving on they will start to think they have made a big mistake.

You want to make them think that you have lost interest in them altogether.  After all 'people always want what they can't have'.  So if you make the love of your life think they can't have you back then they will want you all the more.

As there has been no contact they will start to miss you, whereas before you were smothering them now they feel you are neglecting them.  You will also become mysterious to them, they don't know what you are thinking or feeling and are getting curious.

When you were so focused on 'How can I win back the one I love'? you were not in control, your ex knew how much you wanted to get back together and so this gave them all the power, by cutting contact you have taken their power away and restored the balance.  You can now move forward on an even keel.
You now understand that your obsessive behaviour was actually doing the opposite of what you wanted it to do.  This is a common mistake that people make when they have just broke-up with someone.  They are so focused on winning back the one they love that they stop thinking logically.

Just keep your distance and avoid contacting them.  Let them make the first move and play hard to get and it won't be long until you win back the one you love.

The Magic Of Making Up is a fantastic ebook that is full of great tips and advice on how to win back the one you love.  Check out my detailed review

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